This blog is going to reflect on what I have learned about BDSM/lifestyle, interest I have. If there are any topics you would like me to research and blog about, or if you have any questions please email me at WCDT.email@example.com While the kink is nice, and yes a part of BDSM, to me its the least important. I focus on learning about the lifestyle before actually practicing it. The most rewarding part of BDSM is the connection.
About Me: I have been in the lifestyle for 2 yrs (researching and learning/understanding) active for the last year. I started my journey with researching pain, i craved it. At the time I didn’t understand why or even what that meant. I would crave getting the tattoo, it calmed what was going on in my head. (I call it my darkness) While researching Masochist, i saw all these new words like submissive, BDSM, Dominate…I had to look further. At the time, I was in a dead-end marriage, I was empty and lost, these words started something deep inside of me. I could feel myself coming alive. In the beginning of my journey, I didn’t have any help, I was lost and felt like a freak. I have spent the last 2 years doing research and also writing, I want to share that with anyone that needs it, and also continue learning along the way.